Women Against Violence Sunday
Resources for Women
against Violence Sunday from Chile
Service for Women against Violence Sunday
On the Sunday before Advent we are reminded of the nature of the
one who is to come. We call him 'king' but his kingdom is
very different from what people expect. The Gospel passage (John
18:33-37) reminds us that God's kingdom is not one of power through
violence (the model of kingship in Jesus' time), rather God's
kingdom is one where truth, life, and right relationships are
valued. Elsewhere in the Gospels we discover more about the
nature of God's kingdom. Elsewhere in John's Gospel we learn
that Christ the King has friends not servants, and subverts the
notion of status.
Suggested Hymns & Songs
Gifts of the Spirit (When our Lord walked the
A touching place,
We cannot measure how you heal : John L. Bell & Graham
Praise to God, the world's creator: Jan
We shall go out with hope of resurrection : June
We lay our broken World : Anna
Be still, for the presence of the Lord É: David
Brother, Sister, let me serve you : Richard
From Heaven you came (The Servant King),
Meekness and Majesty: Graham Kendrick
The kingdom of God : Bryn Rees
Lord God, your love has called us here: Brian
Call to Worship
Come to God
Who in Christ welcomes all;
Bring to God
All you are and long to be;
Entrust to God
Your burdens, hopes and fears.
Let us worship God.
We worship you, the God of love:
You hold the world in tender embrace,
You feel the hurt and sorrow we bear,
You comfort the wounded heart.
We thank you that in Jesus Christ
You held women in high esteem,
You understood their secret heartaches,
You inspired their love and trust.
We praise you, the Spirit of truth:
You uncover the lies and distortions,
You name the violence in our hearts,
You seek to transform the pain.
O God, we ask that you will reveal
The persistent wrong in our lives,
The reality we choose to ignore,
The abuse we tolerate of other people.
Change our heart and our lives, we pray,
That your image may grow in us
And in those we love.
All: We believe that abusive behaviour is wrong.
1: that women and men should live in safety,
2: that no-one should harm another person;
1: that women and men should know the constancy of
2: that no-one should blow hot and cold in relationships
1: that women and men should feel secure, content,
2: that no-one should have violence used against them;
1: that women and men should feel free to speak out,
2: that no-one should constrain or deny the truth;
1: that women and men should grow towards wholeness,
2: that no-one should restrict another one's growth;
All: We believe that a change of behaviour is right,
In the name of Christ,
Conspiracy of Silence
Fear is a debilitating presence:
What will happen?
When will he do it again?
How will I cope?
Much the same as usual.
You don't see the issues,
You don't hear the questions
Must I forgive him?
He's a child of God like me.
Should I stay with him?
I promised to and meant it.
Can I speak of it to you?
I can't be disloyal.
So I stay locked into myself -
Pain and loneliness writ large,
Gradually losing my trust, my hope.
Will you be as Christ to me?
Will you see with the eyes of truth?
Will you hear with the ears of discernment?
Will you speak out with the voice of challenge?
Will you show me that things can be different?
Will you condemn the violence and abuse?
Will you gently hold me, believe in me?
And strengthen me É.
I need the freedom Christ brings
a liberating presence.
Meditation (Prayer of Confession &
You will need a candle in front of a cross
Everyone will need an angular or rough stone and a candle (with
Quiet music plays in the background until the stones have been
See below for music suggestions.
Let us come to God in prayer
For ourselves and others.
Take hold of your stone in the palm of your hand.
This is you - your life -
Complete with good and bad things.
Facing you are the positive facets of life:
Those things you're happy for others to see and know.
Facing down, out of sight, are the negative things:
Experiences, realities you hide away.
Now find a line of colour or dent or groove.
See or feel the pain etched in your life,
The characteristics you'd rather not have,
The way of life you know is wrong.
Trace the outline of your stone
Until you discover a sharp point or cutting edge.
Recognize the hurt you cause others
And the harm you do to the image of Christ in them.
In the quiet, let God reveal
The conflict and sorrows in your heart.
When you are ready, bring your stone to the cross
And there lay it down, asking God's forgiveness
For all that mars the image of Christ in yourself
And in those closest to you.
People move out to lay down stones
O God, who revealed in your son
That your kingdom is not from this world,
Take from us the addictions, power, violence
Which so grievously wounds you and our loved ones.
Stop us from acting carelessly and callously,
Transform us with your love, we pray.
In God we hope and trust,
We look to God to save us and heal us
From all who try to harm us.
As we pray for all those who suffer at the hands of
Let us light a candle in solidarity with people everywhere
Who are abused in body, mind or spirit.
A woman lights the candle
O God, who shows us in Jesus Christ
How your kingdom will come
In love and justice and peace,
Be present to those of our community here
And those who are our friends, colleagues or neighbours
Who are suffering at the hands of a loved one
Or have to witness the suffering caused.
May they know your supportive presence with them.
Give them the strength to share their pain
And enable the rest of us to hear and believe,
That together we may act to change how things are
So that no-one need live in fear and humiliation.
We pray that your liberating kingdom will come
In truth and hope and love.
Let us spread the hope for Christ's kingdom to come
As we spread the light among us.
Individual candles are lit so that the light gradually
spreads round the congregation.
Try the following CDs with music by Margaret Rizza:
Icons - instrumental music,
Fire of Love - tracks 1, 7, 12 have meditative
River of Peace - tracks 4 & 6 have meditative
Fountain of Life - track 2 - quiet song for use when no
Awakening in Love - track 3 - quiet song for use when no
All available from Kevin Mayhew Ltd.
To download three further resources to accompany the above please
For more information on the subject of domestic violence and to
download more worship resources please visit the 'Decade to
Overcome Violence' website here: www.overcomingviolence.org/