Thursday 28 August 2025

Psalm 39

Background
Paul in this section of his letter to the Ephesians is talking about relationships. It is crucial that we read this passage critically, through contemporary Christian spectacles.

Verse 21 is about the community of the Church. When Pauls says 'be subject to' he does not mean 'be obedient to’. He is ruling out selfish thinking and behaviour in church life. No church member should overlook the authentic claim of another member (for example someone asking for help with a crisis, or who is lonely, grieving, hurt, or who is struggling to understand the Christian message). Such claims from a fellow believer take precedence over one’s own interests and concerns. This is a mutual way of relating: everyone will have times when they listen and respond, and times when they cry for help. What inspires and unites us all is the ever-present Spirit of Jesus.

In verses 22-33 the author turns to secular institutions, the first being marriage and family. The taken-for-granted hierarchy and paternalism in the ancient world (v. 23a) has been totally unacceptable to Christians for generations (just as slavery has long been an offence). Granted the way things are in our own family (both nuclear and extended), we can infuse every thought, word and action towards other family members with the love of Jesus.

Considering the complex and varied family structures in contemporary society, there may be themes and legal constraints that need to be challenged or changed from time to time, to reduce domestic violence, or abuse of children, for example; or to ensure each family unit can feed hungry members, live in peace in suitable accommodation, and play a useful part in community life and care for their elderly and sick.

To Ponder:

• With whom do you have trust and courage to share the complex challenges of family life? If you belong to a church, is there pastoral support available?
• If you could imagine being asked to give a brief reflection at a marriage service, what would you say in the light of your own experience, of family and Christian values?

Bible notes author: The Revd David Deeks
David is a Methodist supernumerary presbyter, living in Bristol.

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