“It is crucial for young girls and boys to express their feelings about the world”

What is it that you do as Girls’ Brigade chaplain?

Being a chaplain at Girls’ Brigade involves supporting the girls during their weekly meetings and providing an opportunity for spiritual reflection. Much of their badge work focuses on understanding their relationship with Christ, which the leaders facilitate. I find it important to be an emotionally available presence for the girls, answering any questions they may have. As someone who represents Jesus in that space, I aim to make their faith feel relevant and approachable. I particularly spend time with the girls at the beginning of every session, focusing on those who have recently transitioned from junior school to secondary school. This age can be very challenging, and it’s a crucial time when they might, for various reasons, distance themselves from church involvement and faith. Therefore, it is essential to provide a connection with someone who has experienced similar challenges and can offer a fresh perspective. I want them to know that they are loved and truly lovable.

Why did you feel called to chaplaincy?

when I found out that we had a Girls’ Brigade group that was not only functioning, but flourishing and growing, I was amazed, because I moved from Cornwall, where numbers were dwindling in the groups that we had, and groups were closing, and so I just asked a few questions of what they thought a chaplain could bring, and whether they would like to maybe have involvement in the services that we do bring new groups of their own. I think it's really important that young people have a voice in the church, that they are cherished and that they are recognized, and they have their own voice. So I hope that I help them find that voice.

What is it about Methodism that is different from other faiths and approaches to chaplaincy?

I take great pride in being a Methodist minister because our Church is inclusive, evangelistic and committed to seeking justice. The world feels chaotic and unsafe at the moment. Historically, we've been taught to avoid discussing politics or religion, which has created a significant gap in generations within the church. It is crucial for young girls and boys to express their feelings about the world, reflect on their values, and explore how these relate to their faith. Finding their voice in a society where this is not commonly encouraged is essential.

Tell me about one person you’ve met where you have had an impact on their lives

I think it is especially important to nurture and cherish the leaders. They attend and are responsible for a group that runs weekly in churches. Many have served their church for decades in that role and have seen ministers come and go. They would have seen stewards come and go, people who hold responsibility in the church help for a bit and then get called away. That can be disheartening.

When I arrived in the District, I took the time to get to know the leaders, understand their particular calling and their particular ministry to the girls. I know they value this approach, and it is important for me to take time to be with them. Although I can't stay forever because I'm an itinerant Minister, I can be emotionally available and present for the time that I am there and nurture other people's ministry which I think is vital.