Pride in Durham

With the spirit of Pride feeling challenged in the current political climate, Durham City Methodist Church decided to do more than join the parade to ensure everyone knew they were welcome.

The event, at the end of May, involved the participation of an LGBTQI group who attend the church coffee morning every month and students from Durham University. There was just a few weeks to prepare and little knowledge of the procedures when the small team decided that the church should make a bigger contribution to this year’s event. “In the past we walked in the parade but this year we had a stall where those who were working epitomised all of God’s love in action and demonstrated how the love of God encompasses all genders, races, colours, sexualities, and disabilities,” said the circuit EDI officer, Stuart Lawson. “There was a myriad of people at our Pride stall and God loved everyone there.”

‘Freebies’ such as pens with inspirational biblical quotes were given away. However, the most important part of the event was the show of support, kindness and understanding for the LGBTQI community and others who may not feel welcome in church.

The presence of Durham City Methodist came as a surprise to some people but, by having a stall, the church was able to do more than passively participate. “The biggest successes were the extended conversations we were able to have,” continued Stuart. “Some chats were with people who didn't think that the church was there for them, who didn't think that the church was welcoming. We had leaflets to explain what we stand for with messages from various groups who use the church.

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“We were chatting with one of the drag queens and they shared their story, having been disowned by their family and not accepted in any kind of religious establishment.”

“This Pride was mission and evangelism in a totally different way. The feedback was phenomenal. From a pastoral perspective, the conversations were great, ‘If you want to talk, if you want to get married, we have a place for you where you are welcome.’

Following the success of Pride, Stuart is looking to spread the EDI message at other events next year to help their mission, not just within the LGBTQI + community. “We know that EDI is an issue for the whole church, our attendance at Pride opened up a massive network and a number of conversations on where our church needs to go in terms of equality, diversity and inclusion.

“EDI feels under threat in the current political climate so Pride events are so much more important. But we don't want tokenism, we want inclusion and equality and diversity in everyday life and not just a flag.”

You can read more about how your church can join Pride events here.